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We have decided to move forward with a trial period and have agreed not to cuddle in front of Ted. We're gonna make sure poly time does not overlap with friend time, which will hopefully make Ted happier during the hangouts and with the situation overall. Thanks for your kind response

Not really. I am open and willing to explore a separate poly relationship with Ted and someone else. I've spoken to him about it and he's not sure how he feels about it. Since to him having a more complicated polycule stresses him out a bit. Otherwise your summary is accurate. This is a great...

No I guess not, but passion can lead people astray if blindly followed. Sitting down and having a serious converstation was really necessary for us to make sure we were all on the same page in terms of desires and boundaries. It may have been a formal start but it doesn't mean that there was no...

This wasn't really the case. I had some chemistry with Lily and was open to exploring other chemistry. But since I was most open to it the starting convo and exploration was to see if other people were down too. And everyone agreed they were down to try. Your response seems pretty charged and...

Names for anonymity: Ted (My Primary Partner) Couple 2: Lily Josh Alright, this is my first real post here and I'm not sure where to start with this post, but I think the best thing to do is to outline the context of my current situation. My partner Ted (male, straight) and I (female...

Thank you for the kind welcome message! I’m really excited to explore the forums and get some advice on my particular situation. Exploring poly for the first time is kinda daunting, but I really appreciate the presence of the forum and all you helpful and kind folks :)

Ya it would seem that this is unfortunately true. I was really hopeful that the quad would work but two people just weren’t attracted to each other and that definitely changed things. The super unfortunate thing is that the quad has a strong triad with everyone liking each other (myself and...

Hey all, I’m Bibi and I’m a bi woman newly getting into polyamory. Not really sure what to put into an introductory post but I figured it was polite to introduce myself before I beg for advice lol. I’ve been in a relationship for about 3 years now and we recently opened up to the idea of poly...