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    Need advice on moving on from a poly emotional affair

    I thought an update might be appreciated: Jean is no longer seeing Sherry. He did continue seeing her for a while after I made this post, and there were some more attempts on Sherry's end to overstep boundaries, but nothing I'll get into, because they aren't terribly important now. What is...
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    Need advice on moving on from a poly emotional affair

    I actually have sent him that article! As well as others I found that I thought would be helpful to read. You're right, I would absolutely feel the need to do those things for Sherry, since in my mind that's simply what I do for guests. In fact I have done it many times already before...
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    Need advice on moving on from a poly emotional affair

    My bad, I was trying to be as brief as possible since I had to trim down my last post by about 3k characters lol I specified a minimum of 3-4 weeks to Jean (and Sherry by default cause it was in writing in a discord server we made for the three of us) before I'd consider having Sherry over...
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    Need advice on moving on from a poly emotional affair

    I made a post not too long ago, so if you recognize described events and names, that's why. If you haven't read my previous post, that's fine. I'll be writing a summary here. Essentially, the involved parties are myself, my husband 'Jean', and a recently met mutual friend 'Sherry'. Jean and...
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    Struggling with feelings of demotion and displacement

    Thank you both for the advice, it's helpful beyond words. I have a few small updates on the situation and some things I'd like to clarify on, since I really had to prune down some details as when I originally was done word vomiting I was over 3k characters over the limit lol. So we had some...
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    Struggling with feelings of demotion and displacement

    I (30f) have been with my husband/primary/nesting partner Jean (26m) for 5-6 years, married for 2. We've had a great relationship thus far with lots of communication, check-ins, and consideration. Early on, we established that we both were open to non-monogamous relationships, but due to the...
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