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Yeah, you’re right. Thank you kindly for your words and advice.

I honestly would love to talk to a poly counselor and see if what I am wanting is too much for: polyamory, this relationship or in general. I feel like I am accepting breadcrumbs from someone that just told me his poly friends are like, why did you take on a newb? After our last conversation, I...

It was established that they would say good morning and goodnight, but it’s been inconsistent since the argument. I’d like to have a conversation, but it doesn’t feel safe to bring it to him at this time. It’s a lot and it’s messy. I should have taken a step back… a few times, and did things a...

Oh, I’ve asked. He said I could ask for things, but it doesn’t mean that I will get them. I just have to accept his well wishes and be grateful I get those. 😅

Thank you so much 😊🙏🏾

I don’t want to belittle their commitment. If they say they are married and they collared each other… they are married. Legally though, not so much I guess. Yes, I did think that I needed to be with both of them. Which I see now isn’t the case. I could have just dated him but I didn’t know how...

I honestly think that I became interested in him over time and should have done the same with her. I just got sucked up in the moment and she seemed sweet at the time. I thought having two Doms would help with my journey and I would learn more. Which was not the case.

Being newish to kink and then jumping into poly… was a mistake. I am bi and demisexual, so I thought my crush could grow into more over time, but I didn’t feel we were connecting as I had hoped. Am I poly? Still figuring that out. They jumped into commitment so quickly and then went back to...

She also started dating someone else about 2 months after we got together, so I’m curious what that makes our situation now. 🤔 I posted a journal entry online, expressing my hurt, lonely and sadness about a conversation I had with him, to our community, seeking comfort. But she said I put her...

To be more clear, she is married legally to her husband that she lives with. My boyfriend is doing solo poly and lives apart from her. They don’t believe in hierarchy, like primary-type arrangements, so if he and I stay together, it is his decision.

Much appreciated 🙏🏾

Hi hi, 39 year old female from California. Like the title says, I’m new, about 6 months of learning about poly. Looking for community and a little guidance. I’ve listen to More Than Two and Polysecure thus far. Welcome any other literature or perhaps online info as well. Hope everyone has an...

Well, I kinda got a quick up the escalator experience, like, 3 weeks after our first date, they made me their gf. I originally started seeing him, and then she kinda jumped on the bandwagon. We struggled for 5 months until she called it quits. My needs aren’t clear, which makes things...

Hello all, Newbie here and really could use some advice. Recently started seeing a poly couple and his wife just broke up with me. She said we could be friends but honestly how can you go back to something you never had? He said he is committed since we were friends before getting involved...