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Yes, it is. And nks, yes, I do feel the issues of being on the relationship escalator by default with him. I do feel a bit of a performative streak with him just because he's a straight man and we live in a conservative country. I've always felt everyone expects me to fit into a mold and I've...

You sound like a brave soul for trying not only polyamory, but what to me sounds like a very hardcore version of it with so many people involved and still being added to the mix both health-wise and emotionally. For this pillar partner, unfortunately not all metamours like each other. I'm sad...

I'll try to write the "facts" and then our current situation. First to Kevin, I agree about the resentment part not because I don't understand where he's coming from, he's hurt. But him taking away the thing I see as my almost only joy in life (and my child, but he's in the angry toddler phase...

Thank you everyone for your considerate replies! They did help save my sanity the last few days! I think we're going to lean toward him taking a backseat for a while and keeping only our non-sexual partnership while I figure the feelings/sexuality part with her and our detangling/finance...

Hello all! I read quite a few threads on here, so I hope I can pick your brain and receive some help with this limbo. I'm 37F married with a toddler to a 34M, relationship just reached 15 anniversary most of them we have been open/ENM/Poly throughout with "increasing the difficulty" as time...