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That's what I was questioning. Not mentioning my wife beforehand I would feel like I was blindsiding her during a date. And mentioning it before, might seem to her like I am saying I'm off limits. And by flirt I meant it in a way like smiling and just mannerisms. Not hardcore flirting.

By the way, I mainly want her to know I'm married before we go out so there is less pressure. We can talk normal and become friends. I could lightly and appropriately flirt and see how she takes it. If it turns out I'm not interested or she isn't, then I don't have to mention the whole poly...

A lot of different approaches here but the different advice is appreciated. As for work, we have several thousand people working here so it's not like a small office. My floor alone has over a hundred and she works on the floor below me. One of my superiors just married someone in the company...

So i am in my late 20s. Been with my wife almost 10 years, married for 6 of them and poly for 5 1/2 of them. It was both our idea to be poly but it graduated into that over time. She found a boyfriend really fast and I got jealous. Not jealous of them but jealous because I wanted someone. They...