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So I guess I'm not technically in a poly relationship, but my relationship with my friend is almost like one. I do have a bf and I would love to have a poly relationship with my best friend, but unfortunately you can't force someone to be in a situation which they aren't 100% comfortable with. I...

I know, we really should have talked more before it happened, but it just happened. Like you said, they are some messy boundaries that really should have been cleared up before hand. I really wanted it to happen the normal way of dating someone, not just hop into bed with them. I don't know why...

update Ok, I know it has been a while since I posted. I figured I would post an update of the situation because it has definitely changed. Unfortunately the messy boundaries still happened. About a month ago, my bf allowed me to hook up with my best friend on our own. I truly enjoyed it. But...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, and we have owned a house together for the past 2. I would never cheat on him and wouldn't do anything he didn't feel comfortable with. My best friend is the person of interest and he is VERY respectful of my relationship with my boyfriend and...

Sorry it took so long to reply, I've been busy. Honestly, I don't know. I love him so much and would never want to lose him. I don't think I HAVE to be dating other people to be happy. But I really think I would be happy dating the person I have in mind as well as my boyfriend. We are really...

I really think I am polyamorous and want to open my existing relationship up. I have talked to my boyfriend about it years ago and he said he would possibly be interested, but at that point I had no person of interest so we just remained in a mono relationship. Well this past year, I have fallen...

Yeah, that's exactly what I don't want him to feel, forced. I guess I just feel a little impatient because I would love to start dating my best friend, but I guess I just need to relax and wait, it's not like he's going anywhere.

Thanks. I actually sent him a link to Franklin's site about a week ago. I asked him if he ever read it, but he said no. I asked him if he could do me a favor and just read it. I find that site super informative and it has given me a lot of advice. Hopefully he will read it. Thanks for the idea...

How to open up bf to idea of poly I have been with my boyfriend for five years in a monoamorous relationship. I love him so much. I have developed strong feelings for my best friend of two years. I have talked to my boyfriend before about having a poly relationship with my best friend. He had...

I have been in a mono relationship for over 5 years, but I have always felt I am poly. I love my boyfriend and could see us being together forever. I have talked it over with him and he seems to be fine with the possibility. The thing is is that I have strong feelings for my best friend. He is...