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I'm really surprised to find so much criticism and judgement and things made personal here. I guess when I think about it, it might make sense. The way my life is offends and threatens the way some other people live their lives. The same way a monogamous couple might feel threatened by the idea...

Hmm... that makes sense. But won't that be even harder on us when we all of a sudden change from only being together to being with other people?

Thank you for all this advice. Um... there is something I should have mentioned. She isn't a U.S. citizen, so we will be having 3 months to decide if we want to marry. There are certainly multiple parts of me, which makes us complicated as people. I'm not exactly okay with her seeing other...

Probably true. I came out of 6 or so years of monogamous relationships, followed by 3 years of one-night stands, with a couple girlfriends on the side of that. It's funny how the pendulum swings from one side to the other and lands in the middle.

I'm not really interested in labeling anything whatever. Sorry if my presence or my lifestyle is disturbing. I'm not trying to say my situation is poly or not. Okay, I agree with everyone-- it's not. But I don't care. You guys have a lot of experience handling emotions and thinking clearly in...

It might seem that way. Occasionally it has been. But there are quite a few women I'd love to date, or at least see again. When I meet a girl at a bar, I spend a couple hours getting to know as much as I can about her, and seeing if she's someone who I'd want to have sex with in the first...

Whoops, sorry. I'm a bit emotional so I wrote some of this in a rather confusing way. She is going to live with me for 3 months, but we have known each other for 3 years. I didn't mean she doesn't know me. I feel she does. I just wrote that all messed up. I guess what I hope to get out of the...

Hi, I'm seeing one girl who is poly. I am routinely having one-night stands. I have not actually cared about a girl in over three years. Right now, a girl is coming to live with me for three years. A little about her: She is a gold digger, sugar baby. She's not gold digging me. I'm broke...

Hi I'm Tommy i live in California and am dating a few girls many of whom are poly too. A few who are but dont like to label it or think about it. I'm near 30 and am looking forward to learning from the experience here thanks!:)