Firstly, I suppose my own introduction. I am falco, a 28 year old female.
Now it gets a bit complicated.
I am married to 'bear' who is 27 (5 1\2 years) and 'sunshine' who is 24 is my second significant other. (Going on 6 months). The three of us live together and get along quite well, all things considered.
Now on to how it came to be. I went to high school with bear so we have known eachother for quite some time. After school, he joined the military and we lost contact. I ended up working in a grocery store in our smallish hometown and ran in to his father, who said he was in town and it came to be thàt we reunited and long story short, we got married. Fast forward 3 years, and he was severely injured and medically discharged. He still has chronic pain and is not always able to 'fulfill husbandly duties' so we discussed opening our marriage as he felt I was being somewhat deprived. After months of debating, we agreed that I would get a boyfriend. He didn't much like the idea of one offs and I agreed. The first 2 were decent guys, but eventually decided they didn't want to share me, even though they knew I was married from the get go. Then I met my sunshine. We were coworkers and at first, bear didn't like the idea, but once they got to know eachother, they became fast friends. Bear invited sunshine over for a weekend of gaming (their bonding time) and he just never left. (Sunshine had still been living with his parents). I love the both of them with everything that I am and couldn't imagine being without either of them, but trying to explain it to the families is a bit tough. Sunshine's parents adore me because I make him happy. My family thinks neither of them are good enough for me. Bear's family doesn't know yet and I don't think they ever will.
So that about covers it for the most part I assume. I would love to have someone to talk with who (somewhat) understands.
Cheers
-Falco
Now it gets a bit complicated.
I am married to 'bear' who is 27 (5 1\2 years) and 'sunshine' who is 24 is my second significant other. (Going on 6 months). The three of us live together and get along quite well, all things considered.
Now on to how it came to be. I went to high school with bear so we have known eachother for quite some time. After school, he joined the military and we lost contact. I ended up working in a grocery store in our smallish hometown and ran in to his father, who said he was in town and it came to be thàt we reunited and long story short, we got married. Fast forward 3 years, and he was severely injured and medically discharged. He still has chronic pain and is not always able to 'fulfill husbandly duties' so we discussed opening our marriage as he felt I was being somewhat deprived. After months of debating, we agreed that I would get a boyfriend. He didn't much like the idea of one offs and I agreed. The first 2 were decent guys, but eventually decided they didn't want to share me, even though they knew I was married from the get go. Then I met my sunshine. We were coworkers and at first, bear didn't like the idea, but once they got to know eachother, they became fast friends. Bear invited sunshine over for a weekend of gaming (their bonding time) and he just never left. (Sunshine had still been living with his parents). I love the both of them with everything that I am and couldn't imagine being without either of them, but trying to explain it to the families is a bit tough. Sunshine's parents adore me because I make him happy. My family thinks neither of them are good enough for me. Bear's family doesn't know yet and I don't think they ever will.
So that about covers it for the most part I assume. I would love to have someone to talk with who (somewhat) understands.
Cheers
-Falco
