Married 15 years, she says she's a bit bored and would like the emotional connection with another man (preferably) or woman. We're in our mid 30's and going through a bit of an itch. She's the type that is always looking for new no matter what it is. No problem with that and it keeps me sharp. We had a threesome many moons ago MFM and it was great for our relationship and sex life. Occurred with the same individual until he moved away shortly thereafter. I definitely have desires outside our relationship as well but I'm not really looking for emotional connection.
Here's my ? to the forum. Knowing her flighty-ness what direction would you point her and how? I really feel she isn't committed enough to pull off poly from what I've read trolling the forums and awesome unicorn hunter links (those helped - thanks!). I'm not going to push her into anything but just based on our previous threesome I do feel an outside relationship of some sort would be beneficial. She's said she's just trying to wait it out until the feelings pass but I don't think they will and I want to be prepared with options and insight. She is totally committed to me and does love and desire me.
Let me know if I can provide any additional details. Really looking to identify the best route based on her desire for additional emotional (not necessarily sexual) intimacy.
There is a local couple that posted on craigslist mw4mw that sounded spot on from an attraction/fun (not poly) standpoint but would that give the wife the emotional satisfaction?
Here's my ? to the forum. Knowing her flighty-ness what direction would you point her and how? I really feel she isn't committed enough to pull off poly from what I've read trolling the forums and awesome unicorn hunter links (those helped - thanks!). I'm not going to push her into anything but just based on our previous threesome I do feel an outside relationship of some sort would be beneficial. She's said she's just trying to wait it out until the feelings pass but I don't think they will and I want to be prepared with options and insight. She is totally committed to me and does love and desire me.
Let me know if I can provide any additional details. Really looking to identify the best route based on her desire for additional emotional (not necessarily sexual) intimacy.
There is a local couple that posted on craigslist mw4mw that sounded spot on from an attraction/fun (not poly) standpoint but would that give the wife the emotional satisfaction?