TBH when KC goes out and the kids go to bed I enjoy the "alone time", witch is something I really haven't had in years and didn't realize how much I missed it.
Out of all the BS I went through during our initial exploration of poly, this was the best thing to come out of it. I had alone time and could do things on my own without pushback from DAG. My one rule on this was that I was not doing chores around the house if DAG was out having fun with his partner(s). I had fun on my own, so it balanced out.
