are there lesbian polygamists??

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ceejay

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I am a lesbian and I have been very drawn to the idea of a polyamorus lifestyle. Where do I find a community like this? Am I one of very few??
 
There is a thread on the "general discussion" forum that might help. No you are not alone. There have been many come and gone here. I have a friend that is lesbian and poly. She is not a polygamist, but polyamorous. Not sure I get your thread title.
 
Hiya. idk how many communities there are, really. You know us les-folk like to make searching for information as difficult as possible. I've been in a lesbian poly relationship for the last year (long distance, at that). I know we have all gotten a lot of helpful info from the forums here that we have been able to apply to our lives. I guess, see what's around your area, straight or gay, as far as poly groups. Even if you can't find one that is mainly LGBT, you will still be able to find support. I know it's not much, but it's always a place to start. And of course, search here :) Sorry I cant be more helpful.
 
Surely any group you find will at least have bisexual and pansexual women and men in it. Diversity abounds in poly groups, as far as I have noticed. If you can't find a group near you, put the word out and make your own. You could meet at a quiet and private coffee shop or something to see who shows up who's like-minded. Really, that's the most important, part first and foremost, that you meet poly people. It's usually then that the dating pool expands and friendships grow.
 
I've found my local poly group to be LGBTQ friendly. There are a number of bisexual or pansexual women involved in the group, including myself. However, there does not seem to be, at least locally, a lesbian poly community or group. It may be the numbers are too few to really coalesce as a separate community. Or I just haven't found them yet!
 
Geez, it would be really sad for me if the lesbian poly community here became an exclusive group. I identified as such for 10 years, married a woman, the whole bit. Part of why I love my community is the diversity and the mentality that gender differences, sexuality differences, etc., are not as important as coming together because our loving styles (identity) are similar.
 
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