So yeah I saw this section and figured it'd be a good way to just kinda get things out. If nobody reads it fine, and if someone does even better. Just tired of having nobody who understands.
Well first things first. I am married to a wonderful husband who as the saying goes can't live with him, can't live without him. He pushes my buttons in every aspect of life and has made me into a better person. We have been through so much in the past two years that it is just insane to even look back on. We've been homeless, dealt with ex wife issues, had family issues, are broke as hell and going to have to file bankruptcy, and he's getting kicked out of the military. We decided to try polyamory after swinging 2-3 times. We decided this after all the couples we swung with we pretty much ended up dating or becoming friends with. We learned we didn't like just the sexual aspect, and that we wanted an actual relationship.
We would love to find a couple or a girlfriend for us, but also like to date separately. Right now I have a boyfriend who I just started dating that wants it to be just him so he is my only partner right now besides my husband. My husband is seeing two girls and is trying to see which one he'd like to date. Usually when we start seeing other people it is a good month long process of that person meeting with everyone in the family, and making sure everyone clicks and gets along. We have an 11 month old and my husbands 3 year old from his previous marriage so we like to make sure the person/persons we date can handle the crazy of us having kids. We've had so many guys try and lie that we've also started doing what we call person checks on people. Where we search anywhere and everywhere we can to try and find out a little about the person.
My husband is military so it makes having to check even more important and making sure that everyone is aware of the dangers of it. Which kinda sucks actually because now that I found someone I really like, we found out my husband is getting out at the end of July possibly mid August. We will be moving back to Florida to so it is just kinda impossible feeling lol. Plus I just found out today a very good friend who is religious pretty much doesn't view with our lifestyle. It is very hard to stay freinds with her when she keeps shoving it in my face and then turns around and says LBGT community does the same, and that we have so many troubles in life because we broke God's covenant of one man one woman in marriage.
Well first things first. I am married to a wonderful husband who as the saying goes can't live with him, can't live without him. He pushes my buttons in every aspect of life and has made me into a better person. We have been through so much in the past two years that it is just insane to even look back on. We've been homeless, dealt with ex wife issues, had family issues, are broke as hell and going to have to file bankruptcy, and he's getting kicked out of the military. We decided to try polyamory after swinging 2-3 times. We decided this after all the couples we swung with we pretty much ended up dating or becoming friends with. We learned we didn't like just the sexual aspect, and that we wanted an actual relationship.
We would love to find a couple or a girlfriend for us, but also like to date separately. Right now I have a boyfriend who I just started dating that wants it to be just him so he is my only partner right now besides my husband. My husband is seeing two girls and is trying to see which one he'd like to date. Usually when we start seeing other people it is a good month long process of that person meeting with everyone in the family, and making sure everyone clicks and gets along. We have an 11 month old and my husbands 3 year old from his previous marriage so we like to make sure the person/persons we date can handle the crazy of us having kids. We've had so many guys try and lie that we've also started doing what we call person checks on people. Where we search anywhere and everywhere we can to try and find out a little about the person.
My husband is military so it makes having to check even more important and making sure that everyone is aware of the dangers of it. Which kinda sucks actually because now that I found someone I really like, we found out my husband is getting out at the end of July possibly mid August. We will be moving back to Florida to so it is just kinda impossible feeling lol. Plus I just found out today a very good friend who is religious pretty much doesn't view with our lifestyle. It is very hard to stay freinds with her when she keeps shoving it in my face and then turns around and says LBGT community does the same, and that we have so many troubles in life because we broke God's covenant of one man one woman in marriage.