Seasonedpoly
New member
Hi,
I lurked here for a while and made a thread but forgot my password and the email I associated with the account and went back to lurking. You can find it here
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=78501&page=2
For anyone interested in an update for that thread, I decided to break up with the guy but we are still casual friends. He is still with the woman and it is still a lot of hard work for him and he has had to install very firm boundaries. Fortunately I now feel safe from her as I am no longer a rival for his affection.
I'm now happily with three partners. One live in and two who are local. All have other partners.
I lurked here for a while and made a thread but forgot my password and the email I associated with the account and went back to lurking. You can find it here
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=78501&page=2
For anyone interested in an update for that thread, I decided to break up with the guy but we are still casual friends. He is still with the woman and it is still a lot of hard work for him and he has had to install very firm boundaries. Fortunately I now feel safe from her as I am no longer a rival for his affection.
I'm now happily with three partners. One live in and two who are local. All have other partners.