Closed triad..partner allowing ex h to sleepover on weekends

Of course the kids needs always come first..Iam not self centered..I have not even said a word to Jane and have not demanded or requested she do anything different than what she is doing..I have done nothing wrong.
 
But why would there be any need to talk to her about it in the first place? You haven't really explained WHY it bothers you. Do you feel possessive of her? Jealous? Afraid of something he might do? Insecure about your place in her life? Isn't she allowed some privacy? And to have friends and connections in her life without telling you about them or clearing it with you first? You emphasized in your initial post that you're in a closed triad with her, but what does that have to do with anything? Do you feel threatened by his staying there, for some strange reason? Unless you dig down to get to the kernel of what really irritates you about it, nobody can really help.
 
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