Coming full circle....

[Bubbles86]

Hi everyone!

Glad to have found this forum! I am a loving mother to two children and a wife to my men, whom I both love as my husbands (although I can be married to one only legally).

I was married to my first hubby, D, for several years. We were high school sweethearts and soon after we were married we had a child together. Our marriage had its fair share of conflicts (which I know no were due to a lot of immaturity on our respective parts) and we got divorced. We both loved our son so we worked things out to work together as friends and to be the best parents we could be.

I waited for a couple of years and before dating again. A, to whom I'm legally married, came into my life five years ago and swept me off of my feet. We married two years later and now we have a young daughter together.

A respected my relationship with D because he didn't want to get in the way of him being a dad to his son. A began to bond with my son as well.
I still had deep feelings for D, but tried to put them aside as I moved forward with A and got married to him. I didn't know it was polyamory technically at first but I realized I was lying to myself and still loved D as well as I loved A. I was totally torn.

To make a long-story short, A and D grew to respect each other as men. A was able over time to figure out that I still had feelings for D. I read about polyamory and realized the only way I could be honest with myself and them was to let them know I wanted both of them in my life as my husbands. I had a heart to heart talk with both men soon after A and I got married both individually and collectively and we decided to start this journey together as a poly triad. Just recently D and I have become intimate. He moved in with A and I a few months ago and so far so good! I hope we keep our loving MFM triad together for the long haul.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Bubbles86,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sounds like you've got a great thing going with A and D. If A and D are "just friends" and not romantically connected, then you have a V, with you as the hinge, and the two men as the "legs" of the V. Well, that would be the technical terminology. "Triad" usually means all three people are romantically connected to each other (which is cool too, of course).

It's great that you and D were able to repair your relationship and build something new with A. If you can all live together in the same time and not be at each other's throats, you're doing pretty good!

Hope you enjoy your stay on our site.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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[Bubbles86]

Thanks kdt! Who is the admin I can contact about making changes to my profile?

 

[IndieSolo]

There are a lot of profile options you can change yourself - just click on the "User CP" link at top. If that's not enough, you can PM ImaginaryIllusion with your request, but I can't promise he'll grant it.