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[AWonderland]

Hello- Just wanted to introduce myself a bit. I have been lurking for couple months, more so in the past few days, so I thought it was time.

My husband and I have been exploring polyamory for a few months now. I have recently stepped back a bit to do more reading, research, and self improving to understand and decide if it is something I really want and am comfortable with.

Probably be mostly lurking around for now, but I'm sure I will post questions as they come up. I think this seems like a great support group and look forward to getting to know everyone!

-A

 

[Nadya]

Hello and welcome!

It is always a good thing to educate oneself first and then make decisions... Would you like to tell us what your and your husband's explorations have included? Is he still exploring even though you stepped back?

Hope everything turns out well with you both and you find a solution that fits your lives. Good luck!

 

[AWonderland]

Hi Nadya!

Hello and welcome!

It is always a good thing to educate oneself first and then make decisions... Would you like to tell us what your and your husband's explorations have included? Is he still exploring even though you stepped back?

Hope everything turns out well with you both and you find a solution that fits your lives. Good luck!

We started researching deeply from the start. Even if we decided not to, it's still fun to learn new things.
Our explorations have been...long story short... made a few friends. And, to be honest, not sure how to answer if he is exploring. (I am aware of things he is doing, so I don't mean this in a bad way!) Maybe I'll do an edit later.

And thank you, so do I!

 

[Nadya]

Our explorations have been...long story short... made a few friends.

Sounds good to me

And, to be honest, not sure how to answer if he is exploring. (I am aware of things he is doing, so I don't mean this in a bad way!)

I can understand this I am also aware of my husband's other relationships but... he seems to conduct them very differently than me, so I honestly don't always quite understand what is going on - and that is totally fine.

Maybe I'll do an edit later.

Feel free to edit or add anything and everything that seems relevant. Hope you enjoy your stay on this forum!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings AWonderland,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Polyamory.com is a really good source of information and you can learn a lot just by reading in the various threads. Having said that, don't hesitate to post your thoughts, questions, concerns, whenever you might want to.

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