First Steps Into Poly

[LevelUp]

Hello everyone!

I (27F) have been drawn to poly since I was fairly young. However, I come from a conservative and highly patriarchal family where I was raised to think that anything that even breathed differently than heterosexual monogamy was Unacceptable. I have happily moved on from that nonsense

I have been with my bf for 4 years and he is supportive of me seeking to share my love with other partners so long as the relationships are happy, healthy, and there is clear communication. I am very lucky to have such a supportive human in my life!

The last thing I would like to say about myself (sorry, this is long) is that I want to educate myself as much as possible on the terminology and dynamics of poly relationships, especially focusing on clear communication and acceptance without jealousy. My idea of a perfect home is one with more than one partner where everyone is comfortable to speak freely.

I am so happy to meet everyone, and look forward to growing forward and leveling up with you all!

(I know, it was cheesy, but I couldn't help it)

 

[SenatorBinks27]

Some of us appreciate cheesy. Welcome, and congratulations on finally stepping out from that shadow.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings LevelUp,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Good for you for forging your own way in life, it is not easy to break from one's childhood conditioning, believe me I know. And how awesome that your boyfriend is very supportive of you!

Here are some links that you may find helpful:

• Online Poly Resources
• Polyamory Websites
• Opening Up
• More than Two
• Poly FAQ
• Glossary and Definitions thread
• Master Thread - links to other threads worth reading
• What If I Get Jealous?
• Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

If you have any questions, just post and let us know. Happy leveling!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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