Getting Divorced- struggling with poly as a single person

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Vicki82

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Hi,

I would really appreciate any advice that people can offer. I just posted my situation in my blog; the last two posts.

I've been with my now ex husband since I was 18 years old and I'm having a hard time figuring myself out now that I'm alone. And there are reverberations through my other relationships as well and I just don't know how to stay balanced and manage my feelings and where I go from here. I'm having a hard time coping.

Thoughts appreciated. I just prefer comments on my blog rather than here to keep it all together because I go back and read weeks or months later too and the threads I've posted here wind up disappearing.
 
Your posts don't disappear. There are several ways to find them after you have logged in:

You can subscribe to a thread by using the link under "Thread Tools" at the top of a thread. Your subscriptions show up in your User Control Panel, which you find by clicking on the User CP link at the top left of every page. You have the choice of getting email notification (or not) whenever someone posts to a subscribed thread.

If you click on your username at the top right of the page, it will take you to your own Profile. Click the tab labeled "Statistics" and you'll see links to "all posts you've ever made" and "all threads you've ever created."

You can also click on your own (or anyone else's) username that shows inside a post and there will be a drop-down list that appears. One of the choices is to see all the posts the user has made.

Hope that helps.
 
Hi Vicki82,

I went to your blog thread and posted briefly there. Hope some small bit of what I said might have helped. I'll follow your story and see if I can contribute some more sometimes in the future.

Regards and sympathies,
Kevin T.
 
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