Greetings from the Indian Territories

[BonzaiBlitz]

Hey ya'll!

I'm a 30 year-old heteroflexible male in an open marriage.

My wife and I opened up our marriage at the beginning of the year so that she could explore BDSM with someone who had already bought the equipment.
I didn't really connect with anyone until March or so, but the more we meet people and the more we play, the more we form emotional attachments and lean toward polyamory.

We're not there yet, since most of the connections we've formed are closer to what Dossie Easton would call "friendly sex," but we're gradually learning that the starvation economy of emotional and physical connections imposed by monogamy is not how we operate.

Opening up has led us to wonderful new experiences with amazing people, and it's helped us grow closer and enhance our own intimacy.

Hope to enjoy some awesome discussion with awesome people here!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings BonzaiBlitz,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like polyamory is a definite possibility for you. I hope you continue to have positive experiences as you work out your open marriage together. Let us know if you have any questions!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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