My partner of 7 years had an affair which i found out 2 weeks ago. She has now told me she wants an open relationship and wants to feel free.
It's clear you love her but i do think going by her actions her love for you maybe limited in which she is not truly revealing or simply non existent. If she wants to feel free i'm sure she would have accepted you leaving once the affair come out. Did she make it obvious so she would be caught out?
Some people struggle with the thought of losing a partner, primarily men.
Men will often accept affairs / open relationships out of fear of losing their wife and having to start again especially over the age of 30. Tell me, are you truly happy, willing and excited to start an open / poly lifestyle or do you fear loss more?
It's clear you love her but i do think going by her actions her love for you maybe limited in which she is not truly revealing or simply non existent. If she wants to feel free i'm sure she would have accepted you leaving once the affair come out. Did she make it obvious so she would be caught out?
Some people struggle with the thought of losing a partner, primarily men.
Men will often accept affairs / open relationships out of fear of losing their wife and having to start again especially over the age of 30. Tell me, are you truly happy, willing and excited to start an open / poly lifestyle or do you fear loss more?