Hello everyone :)

[fairylove100]

Hi everyone, Poly Virgin here (yes I spent some time reading the newbie threads )
Always been bi since I was young, had a only a handful of encounters being as I find it difficult to find females that are not catty or high maintenance which I have no desire for.
Im new to taking action on my poly desires but been wanting to for the past 6 years or so, just never knew the first steps to take.

I adore the quotes "loved should be multiplied not divided.It means to love more; to love more people at the same time."

I guess Im my own kind of unicorn looking for my own little pride
Even if I only make meaningful friendships along the way with like minded people its a start

Not looking for casual sex, or meaningless hookups

Little about me
I have been in a relationship with a man for 9 years, a childhood friend that moved in as my roommate and one thing led to another during my divorce and we became romantically evolved. He is very aware of my being bi-natured and my interest and desire for polyamory. Over the past 7 years we have settled back into more of roomamtes than that of a romantic partnership. Sadly he has no ability to show physical, emotional, sexual intimacy. We have experimented with friends that just happened to be open, but he had no interest and as much as he enjoyed our friendships with them the rest was lost on him so when the intimacy begins thats when he gets bored and excuses himself.
I crave physical, emotional and sexual intimacy. I dont understand people that shy from it and hide it.
I had no family growing up so I guess Im still searching for the place that I belong, my own family of sorts.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings fairylove100,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Kitchener's in Ontario, isn't it?

I really like that quote "Love should be multiplied not divided." Was it Cody on Sister Wives who first said it?

I hope you'll find the intimacy you desire. We have a Dating & Friendships subforum that may help. Also I have a list of links to stuff like OKCupid if that would help.

In addition, I hope you'll make many friends here. I usually follow the intro threads pretty closely, so you can ping me on this thread here.

Glad you could be with us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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