Hello from Colorado

cheribird44

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Hey there! My name is Cheri. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 1/2 years. We have an open relationship. We've recently been kicking around the idea of bringing another woman into the picture, but aren't sure what to expect. We live in a pretty small town, so there's not a lot of people to talk to about it. I'm basically just looking for advice, stories, anything to better educate us. I've done a lot of reading, but I think it's better to hear from real people. Any thoughts or advice is greatly welcomed! Thank you!!!
 
Greetings Cheri,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

When you say, "bringing another woman into the picture," it makes me think you mean to create an MFF triad, because that happens very often in poly. Make sure the second woman is on equal footing with you and your boyfriend, and don't be alarmed if the three of you are unequal in how much in love each person is with the other two people. In fact the triad may turn into a V; that, too, often happens.

Maybe I can think of more advice after hearing more of your story? Hopefully this'll do for starters.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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