SleepySecrets
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Hello, lovely people!
You can call me Sleepy. My name is pretty recognizable, especially in such a small island like Puerto Rico. But hopefully someday I'll feel comfortable enough in my life to live openly.
Personality:
I'm pretty cheery (most of the time), utterly introverted (INFP) and I love drawing! I hope to become a kickass illustrator one day. And I'm a total geek.
My Polyamorous Situation:
My husband and I have been together since 2010. He's helped me come to terms with my pansexuality and my polyamorous feelings. At first, we called it a sorta-open-relationship. And since then we've swung, threesome'd and shared emotionally intimacy with other people. For him, the lifestyle is inclined towards the physical aspects with small room for emotional. For me, it's very emotional and some physical.
We are involved with PB, who used to be my hub's ex and someone who had a crush on me and me on her before I realized I wasn't straight. She loves us and if it were up to her, we'd be a full-blown triad. I don't know if I can do a 100% live-in triad though. I have a lot of feelings for her but I also have a lot of insecurities. For now, she is our girlfriend whom we see a couple of times a month.
I just came out of a mono-poly relationship with FN. We're extremely compatible and I have a lot of feelings for him. But because of other personal matters having to do with my hub's health, I had no time to tend to FN. Sometimes I wish I was FN's secondary gf, so that way he'd receive the love and time he deserves from someone else but I could still be romantically attached to him. We're still in love but it's been a rocky road with time constraints.
There's also ESC, a m/f couple that we're involved with from Georgia. We met them just before we left but we hit it off very well as friends. I was 3rd-base physically intimate with ESCm. In the polycule diagram ESCf drew, she connected ESCm and I as romantically involved. I do harbor emotional and physical attraction to him and potentially to her if we were to get more in-depth.
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If you read through all of this, you're a trooper. I'm bad a summaries. Have a lovely day!
You can call me Sleepy. My name is pretty recognizable, especially in such a small island like Puerto Rico. But hopefully someday I'll feel comfortable enough in my life to live openly.
Personality:
I'm pretty cheery (most of the time), utterly introverted (INFP) and I love drawing! I hope to become a kickass illustrator one day. And I'm a total geek.
My Polyamorous Situation:
My husband and I have been together since 2010. He's helped me come to terms with my pansexuality and my polyamorous feelings. At first, we called it a sorta-open-relationship. And since then we've swung, threesome'd and shared emotionally intimacy with other people. For him, the lifestyle is inclined towards the physical aspects with small room for emotional. For me, it's very emotional and some physical.
We are involved with PB, who used to be my hub's ex and someone who had a crush on me and me on her before I realized I wasn't straight. She loves us and if it were up to her, we'd be a full-blown triad. I don't know if I can do a 100% live-in triad though. I have a lot of feelings for her but I also have a lot of insecurities. For now, she is our girlfriend whom we see a couple of times a month.
I just came out of a mono-poly relationship with FN. We're extremely compatible and I have a lot of feelings for him. But because of other personal matters having to do with my hub's health, I had no time to tend to FN. Sometimes I wish I was FN's secondary gf, so that way he'd receive the love and time he deserves from someone else but I could still be romantically attached to him. We're still in love but it's been a rocky road with time constraints.
There's also ESC, a m/f couple that we're involved with from Georgia. We met them just before we left but we hit it off very well as friends. I was 3rd-base physically intimate with ESCm. In the polycule diagram ESCf drew, she connected ESCm and I as romantically involved. I do harbor emotional and physical attraction to him and potentially to her if we were to get more in-depth.
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If you read through all of this, you're a trooper. I'm bad a summaries. Have a lovely day!
