Hello, time for my intro right?

[Attarax]

Okay, so the basics:

• Age: 34
• Married for 14 years, together with my husband for 15
• I'm bisexual, he is straight...though jokingly has his "would go gay for celebs list"
• We have 2 kids (13 and 12)
• Have gone through the gamut of swingers/open poly/ and finally settled on polyfidelity (I think?)

That's a quick and dirty summation....though I guess I should tack on that our polyfi configuration is a vee (?) sorry I'm still relatively new to labeling with appropriate terms.

And we have been together with our 3rd officially for a year now, but if you include the dating portion (which I seriously wasn't aware that was happening...I'm not the sharpest tack in the shed.) then we've been with our 3rd for just about 2 years.

I'm going to stop here, though it feels incomplete, but I remember reading that intro's are supposed to be essentials only? I'll double check that thread.

Glad I finally decided to join the forum, I'm glad the forum is still active, I've kept all the thoughts/discussions in my head and my personas are sick of talking to each other.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Attarax,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Though I am not a moderator it's still my opinion that your intro post was totally fine (and I've enjoyed your other posts so far as well). I'm glad you could be a part of us and hope we can be of help if you should be in need. If it's a thread I posted in, it's a thread I'll be following, so ping me in such a thread (e.g. this thread) if you desire my input. Many other members will probably contribute too, wherever you post.

It seems to me you have a pretty upbeat poly situation even though I'm sure you have your challenges. I think you'll fit in well amongst us crazy polys (and those of us who love our polys).

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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