Bsweet2Bev
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I was married for 24 years until my husband passed away three years ago. For most of my marriage I was in a long-term triad living with my husband and my boyfriend. Unfortunately, when my husband died it was like breaking off the leg of a three legged stool. It just didn’t work anymore. Currently my former boyfriend and I live as roommates. He is 18 years older than I, so I’ve become his primary caregiver. I’ve been in a relationship with a local widower who is new to the poly lifestyle and is just branching out. Currently I’ve been dating another guy also but it isn’t sexual (at least for now). I was very free loving in my twenties and early thirties, but I feel I’m getting too old (54) to devote that much time to dating. I’m mainly come to this site to explore how others handle poly relationships. I’d like to keep things in my life safe and satisfying for everyone involved. I think I’ve always been the nurturer.
I retired medically seven years ago and we moved closer to my husband’s family in middle Georgia. I’ve always kept my relationships discreet because there’s a lot of judgement in the southern Bible Belt. I love our home and small neighborhood (we have a wonderful lesbian couple who live next door), but currently we are all recovering from the damage caused by Hurricane Helene. Someday my life will get back to “normal”. I’m enjoying reading different bios and discussions. It’s so nice to have a place to blog without judgement.
I retired medically seven years ago and we moved closer to my husband’s family in middle Georgia. I’ve always kept my relationships discreet because there’s a lot of judgement in the southern Bible Belt. I love our home and small neighborhood (we have a wonderful lesbian couple who live next door), but currently we are all recovering from the damage caused by Hurricane Helene. Someday my life will get back to “normal”. I’m enjoying reading different bios and discussions. It’s so nice to have a place to blog without judgement.