Hi,
Kaycee, and welcome!
It's good to see that you're having such a good experience with your first venture into polyamory! There are plenty of experienced poly people who continue to have envy and/or jealousy issues re: their metamours.
Not wanting to be a downer, but if a crash ever
does come, it's best to be prepared, so you might like to search NRE.
You've obviously got your head screwed on right, so I'm really writing the following for the sake of anybody else curious about poly who might look in here:
It's good to see that you can differentiate between cheating and having other partners. That you can divorce a cheat
because of his cheating, and feel cherished by a man who shares his love with others but is honest and open about it. There is no room for cheating in polyamory! (And, yes, unfortunately there are people who call themselves poly, who are really cheats, giving poly a bad name.)
[In part for use in explaining poly to friends and family who
don't see the difference,] I like to recommend my friend's poem. (Click on its title in the 4th line of my signature and scroll down to nearly the end of that page.)
Might I suggest that you invent pseudonyms for your partner and metamours? If you call him "Him", it will sound funny when you write "Him called me today and [...]"
You might find names for the metamours that indicate which is primary, which is secondary, so readers don't have to keep looking up previous posts in order to understand the situation better.
Have fun on here. Don't just concentrate on the threads that you start. Your input can help others more confused than yourself.
