Hi From Texas

[GirlFromTexlahoma]

Hi everyone,

I've been lurking on this forum for a while and thought I'd finally say hello

I'm fairly new to the idea of being poly ... My husband and I opened our relationship a few years ago with the usual rules, no feelings, no overnights, etc. Over time those rules kind of disappeared one by one. Ok, that makes it sound simple and easy, and it wasn't, but we ended up in a really great place and closer than ever.

About a year ago I started dating my current boyfriend and I'm just now starting to puzzle through what it means for all of us that I am now in long term relationships with two (amazing) guys.

This forum has been a huge help in that - I think I've read 200 pages of old posts! - and I just wanted to say that I really appreciate the honest perspectives and advice here. Maybe someday I'll be wise enough to give advice of my own

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Claire,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Glad to hear Polyamory.com has been helpful to you so far, hopefully that will continue to be the case. Sounds like you've already done much of the hard work to earn your wings, I have confidence that your two guys and you will do well together. If you have any questions or concerns let us know.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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