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perpetually.concerned

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Heyo, I'm a 27 yo woman who's been varying flavors of poly since 21. I identify as solo poly or as a relationship anarchist now. I also identify as a kinky sluuuutttt and do some swork. I have ADHD and suspected autism and am like hyper interested in all things sex and poly and relating. Huge nerd about that stuff, and constantly listen to relationship/kink/sex-focused podcasts. Read some books too (The Ethical Slut, ofc; Future Sex, Polysecure) but mostly have a hard time with reading lol. Also so often the podcasts interview writers of these books and it's so amazing!!!

I'm currently newly ish (3 months) dating one person who is in a long term happy relationship and seeing someone else casually as well. I have met his partner a couple of times and we've gotten along well. It's actually the first time i've felt like i was dating someone who had their shit 100% figured out, and it's an extremely comforting change of pace.
 
perpetually.concerned said:
Heyo, I'm a 27 yo woman who's been varying flavors of poly since 21. I identify as solo poly or as a relationship anarchist now. I also identify as a kinky sluuuutttt and do some swork. I have ADHD and suspected autism and am like hyper interested in all things sex and poly and relating. Huge nerd about that stuff, and constantly listen to relationship/kink/sex-focused podcasts. Read some books too (The Ethical Slut, ofc; Future Sex, Polysecure) but mostly have a hard time with reading lol. Also so often the podcasts interview writers of these books and it's so amazing!!!

I'm currently newly ish (3 months) dating one person who is in a long term happy relationship and seeing someone else casually as well. I have met his partner a couple of times and we've gotten along well. It's actually the first time i've felt like i was dating someone who had their shit 100% figured out, and it's an extremely comforting change of pace.
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sounds as though your taking thing slow and feeling it all out, but by your message you sound happy and that is always a good thing : )
 
Howdy from Texas as well. Glad you are finding this group.
 
Greetings perpetually.concerned,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I read both of your other threads, and responded briefly here and here. It sounds like you have started a new relationship, a better relationship, a more-rewarding relationship. I know it's only been three months, but I hope you can hold on to this new relationship, you could use the healing. If there's anything Polyamory.com can do to help, let us know. Welcome!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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Thanks! I think I'll be able to. It actually feels like the healthiest relationship I've ever been in because the person I'm seeing is very secure in himself and what he wants out of life. And I am too! Just hurt. It helps to share stories so glad to have found ya'll :)
 
Glad you could join us, hang in there, the hurts will heal.
 
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