purplepeach72
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New love doesn't have to come between us
Well I suppose it depends on how you read the relationship plan/contract. We're sending it to her to get her feedback and input so she will have a say. We don't think that new love has to come between us. Keeping our love epic doesn't mean we can't have other epic loves too. Any new love will have to grow to that just like ours did. Relationship don't pop into existence over night. We'll adjust as needed to make it work.
Realistically there are limits on time, space and money that he and I have committed to sharing. I think there's plenty of room in that plan for loving other people. Whether he can find enough time is a whole other issue and really has nothing to do with me and everything to do with his job. She isn't looking to live with us so time available will be an issue. None of us know how this will work. We're just going to have to see how it goes.
Well I suppose it depends on how you read the relationship plan/contract. We're sending it to her to get her feedback and input so she will have a say. We don't think that new love has to come between us. Keeping our love epic doesn't mean we can't have other epic loves too. Any new love will have to grow to that just like ours did. Relationship don't pop into existence over night. We'll adjust as needed to make it work.
Realistically there are limits on time, space and money that he and I have committed to sharing. I think there's plenty of room in that plan for loving other people. Whether he can find enough time is a whole other issue and really has nothing to do with me and everything to do with his job. She isn't looking to live with us so time available will be an issue. None of us know how this will work. We're just going to have to see how it goes.
OK, fair enough.
I read your new marriage contract in your blog. Seems to me you two are (at least on paper) guaranteeing each other your couple comes first. Your love is epic, the greatest love that ever existed on the planet. Anyone that comes between you will be jettisoned.
How does that gel with new gf, who hasn't even had sex with your h yet, wanting some kind of "equal love," as you said upthread? Seems her goals are in perfect opposition to your binding contract.