My boyfriend and I are in a open relationship and I found myself in a sistuation I dont know how to deal with.
Recently we were at a party and my boyfriend and this girl were flirting all night. By the way she was acting, it was clear she didn't know I was his girlfriend and he clearly never brought it up or anything about our relationship style.
So after watching her bascially throw herself at him all night. I talked to him about how I felt disrepected because it was clear she didn't know who I was or how to act infront of me. I know we are in a open relationship but she act if i was no one to respect or really anything more than another girl that wanted the same guy at a party. Like some kind of compenition.
We see her at another event. Again, I feel disrepected by her attiude towards me. Again, he never straighten things out. "hey she is actually my girlfriend, we are in a open relationship, but you need to be civil and respectful to her"
Finally we have a full convo about this since she is now effecting our relationship. ie making me upset. We agree that I would be nice to her and he was talk to her and guide her to understanding our relationship and what is ok and not infront of me. That till fences are mended that nothing will happen between them. He also change his relationship status on facebook to make it clear to everyone in our social circle that was are commited to eachother and give me some security in the relationship.
Well he hasn't been able to talk to her yet about everything..and on our status she writes "Awww.... FB official... must be so..hehe... but seriously awesome you two. ♡". I know its not the worst thing she could say. In girl lanuage, its basically saying aww really thats too bad you have a gf cause I really wanted you...but im going to pretend to be nice and congrats you. Just a side note, this girl have always been in monogamous relationships. She is not looking to share but have to herself.
I know I need to be idk less ensecure and not let her get to me.
But what do you do when the person your partner is interested in hooking up with is catty and gives you no respect. I really feel like if they hooked up, that if I saw her again that she would rub it in my face one way or another. Either a comment or the way she would act around him.
What to do? She I talk to her directly. Should he talk to her. Should I just veto her and say she is causing to many problems and I dont feel like if you slept her she would be mature and respectful to me or our relationship. Its been awhile since someone has been interested in him and I really want him to have the experience of being wanted and being with someone else than his primary partner but at what cost to me?
Recently we were at a party and my boyfriend and this girl were flirting all night. By the way she was acting, it was clear she didn't know I was his girlfriend and he clearly never brought it up or anything about our relationship style.
So after watching her bascially throw herself at him all night. I talked to him about how I felt disrepected because it was clear she didn't know who I was or how to act infront of me. I know we are in a open relationship but she act if i was no one to respect or really anything more than another girl that wanted the same guy at a party. Like some kind of compenition.
We see her at another event. Again, I feel disrepected by her attiude towards me. Again, he never straighten things out. "hey she is actually my girlfriend, we are in a open relationship, but you need to be civil and respectful to her"
Finally we have a full convo about this since she is now effecting our relationship. ie making me upset. We agree that I would be nice to her and he was talk to her and guide her to understanding our relationship and what is ok and not infront of me. That till fences are mended that nothing will happen between them. He also change his relationship status on facebook to make it clear to everyone in our social circle that was are commited to eachother and give me some security in the relationship.
Well he hasn't been able to talk to her yet about everything..and on our status she writes "Awww.... FB official... must be so..hehe... but seriously awesome you two. ♡". I know its not the worst thing she could say. In girl lanuage, its basically saying aww really thats too bad you have a gf cause I really wanted you...but im going to pretend to be nice and congrats you. Just a side note, this girl have always been in monogamous relationships. She is not looking to share but have to herself.
I know I need to be idk less ensecure and not let her get to me.
But what do you do when the person your partner is interested in hooking up with is catty and gives you no respect. I really feel like if they hooked up, that if I saw her again that she would rub it in my face one way or another. Either a comment or the way she would act around him.
What to do? She I talk to her directly. Should he talk to her. Should I just veto her and say she is causing to many problems and I dont feel like if you slept her she would be mature and respectful to me or our relationship. Its been awhile since someone has been interested in him and I really want him to have the experience of being wanted and being with someone else than his primary partner but at what cost to me?
