How to make him understand?

[whatamIdoing]

Best of luck, whatamIdoing. I suppose it's even worse if neither of your men accept sharing you. At least, my man number two (so to speak) is as poly as I am, and happy with it. But you and I know when you love someone (sometwo? lol) you just love them, no matter how mono they are. Then again, situations evolve and people take their time. Here's hoping.

BTW, I like your name. It could have been mine. That's what I thought when this all started: "What the heck am I doing?" It's a hard way, isn't it?

Thanks.

What I have now is two men "sucking it up," so to speak. They are taking what I can give. How sad for all of us.

I think J could be poly in actuality, but he's just so lonely right now.

As for my name, I needed something other than what I normally use to make me not searchable, and I was like WHAT AM I DOING? So that's what happened. It was not what I planned on, to be honest, but it is what it is.