Husband's gf broke up w/him; now he wants to be mono

The flip side of ultimatums is that, had my XH informed me that he was going to continue seeing someone with whom he cheated on me and 'wouldn't choose,' I would have gladly chosen for him, and he'd be gone.

Oh, wait... he is gone.

Had he added insult to injury by treating me as if I were the one with the problem, he'd have been gone even faster.
 
This had turned into a really relevant thread.

I'm glad I don't have to say no to an ultimatum, or tell Neverwhere to choose. It's good he came to that realization himself. We've been doing better this last week. Mark still feels like he's going to get kicked out any minute, which is really rough for him. But he and Neverwhere are getting along great, so that's helped to put everyone at ease.

Amanda is still living here, though she's spending a lot of time at her oldest son's house, so things have been pretty quiet around here.

Neverwhere is still dating his new gf, and that seems to be going well, though she's mono, so that presents its own set of issues. And tonight we have a divert date with another poly couple we found online in our area, so that's promising, if just for new friends who "get it". :)
 
I am very glad to hear it! (As you no doubt noticed, your situation struck a nerve with me. ;) )
 
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