hi im married and new to poly ive been with my wife a total of 8 years married for three i had a web cam addiction and essentially cheated inher eyes but after geting help and devoting myself to her she wanted to try poly after a month of talking about it i decided to try it cuz idont want to lose her.well this whole time she had been developing feelings for another man i felt angry but okd it because i didn't want to go back on what we agreed to my issue isnt the guy its sex i dnt want to share her that way and im notlooking or have any prospects to date is poly going to work. me and her agree that we arent going to hurt the other one but ive been hurt but feel i owe her for my cheating help obi won kanobi your my only hope
i need help am new to poly by two weeks
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So are you and your wife going to agree that neither of you is going to have sex (nor cybersex) with anyone except each other? If you're going to allow sex, then you need to work on jealousy; if you're not going to allow sex, then you both need to be agreed about it.