I posted a while ago about my man and me going poly.
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=20679
It didn't work out with that girl, which was for the best. He's interested in a new girl, someone I know. He went out with her last night, and then came to my place, a bit drunk. He called her and tried to explain things to her.
I got to talk to her. I told her about us, and that I was okay with him being with others. She told him that she was not as open as we are. I told him that that's the risk we're gonna have to take with anyone that either of us are interested in, that they'll either accept us or not.
However, she ended up coming by my place and we all hung out and had a blast. The three of us ended up in bed together. It was amazing! This was totally not planned.
Does this mean that she might change her mind about being as open as us? We don't know. But the part I feel best about is that we were both honest with her from the start, and she understands. I feel like it's a big step for me and him in our poly relationship and I couldn't be happier!
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=20679
It didn't work out with that girl, which was for the best. He's interested in a new girl, someone I know. He went out with her last night, and then came to my place, a bit drunk. He called her and tried to explain things to her.
I got to talk to her. I told her about us, and that I was okay with him being with others. She told him that she was not as open as we are. I told him that that's the risk we're gonna have to take with anyone that either of us are interested in, that they'll either accept us or not.
However, she ended up coming by my place and we all hung out and had a blast. The three of us ended up in bed together. It was amazing! This was totally not planned.
Does this mean that she might change her mind about being as open as us? We don't know. But the part I feel best about is that we were both honest with her from the start, and she understands. I feel like it's a big step for me and him in our poly relationship and I couldn't be happier!