sweetuncertain
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My Husband And I Have Been Married Over 3 Years. We've Been In A Relationship For More Than 7 Years. He's Been Known To Watch Porn Occasionally And My Eyes Have* Strayed A Couple Times, But We've Never Cheated On Each Other Or Introduced Anyone Into Our Sex Life.
In Our First Apartment Together A Good Friend Of Mine, Who I've Known Since Junior High, Stayed With Us On A Regular Basis. This Is The Year I Got Pregnant With My First Child. For The Next Four Years A Had Limited Contact With My Friend. Despite The Fact That He And My Husband Are Great Friends My Friend Was Not There For The Birth Of My Daughter Or My Wedding. He Would Only Telling Me From Time To Time That "It Wasn't My Fault."
This Past Year In October My Friend Began Spending Time With OuR Family, Now Including 2 Boys From My Husbands Previous Marriage. As A Family We Have Decided To Live Together.
We Frequently Take Trips Together, And Have Alone Time. I Love Him, And When I Say This HE Says He Loves Me Back, But Never Fails To Express Love For My Husband And Children Too
Recently We Began Sharing Finances. WheN He Learned Our Income Wasn't Meeting The Budget He Went And Obtained A Better Paying Job. I Am Completely Myself With Him. I Am More At Ease With Him Than Anyone I've Ever Known, Including My Husband.
We Have Never Been Physical, Other Than Hugs.However, He Gives Frequent Compliments.
I've Asked If He IA PursuingWomen And He Told Me "Not Unless They Are Okay With What's Going On Here. If I Were, You'd Already Know About It"
I'm Beginning To Think He Is More Than A Roommate, And Maybe More Than A Friend.I'd Really Like Some Feedback. If You See What IM Seeing What Do I Do To Get Them To Understand And Accept Tha We Aren't Doing Anything Wrong By Committing To One Another?
In Our First Apartment Together A Good Friend Of Mine, Who I've Known Since Junior High, Stayed With Us On A Regular Basis. This Is The Year I Got Pregnant With My First Child. For The Next Four Years A Had Limited Contact With My Friend. Despite The Fact That He And My Husband Are Great Friends My Friend Was Not There For The Birth Of My Daughter Or My Wedding. He Would Only Telling Me From Time To Time That "It Wasn't My Fault."
This Past Year In October My Friend Began Spending Time With OuR Family, Now Including 2 Boys From My Husbands Previous Marriage. As A Family We Have Decided To Live Together.
We Frequently Take Trips Together, And Have Alone Time. I Love Him, And When I Say This HE Says He Loves Me Back, But Never Fails To Express Love For My Husband And Children Too
Recently We Began Sharing Finances. WheN He Learned Our Income Wasn't Meeting The Budget He Went And Obtained A Better Paying Job. I Am Completely Myself With Him. I Am More At Ease With Him Than Anyone I've Ever Known, Including My Husband.
We Have Never Been Physical, Other Than Hugs.However, He Gives Frequent Compliments.
I've Asked If He IA PursuingWomen And He Told Me "Not Unless They Are Okay With What's Going On Here. If I Were, You'd Already Know About It"
I'm Beginning To Think He Is More Than A Roommate, And Maybe More Than A Friend.I'd Really Like Some Feedback. If You See What IM Seeing What Do I Do To Get Them To Understand And Accept Tha We Aren't Doing Anything Wrong By Committing To One Another?
