Jealousy and other Unproductive Feelings

I wish you all the luck in the world...

But this is a polyamory message board. A place for folks in, involved with someone who is, searching for loving most of the time romantic relationships with more than one person. In another words relationships that are more than just about sex.

You will find the advice you are looking for on a swingers message board.
 
Your feelings are quite normal. You probably feel left out when your wife steps out on her own and has experiences without you. You also may be feeling that the men that get to be with her when you are gone are not paying the "toll" so to speak. Namely you get to have sex with their wife/girlfriend. They are "stealing" their opportunity without having to deal with the same jealousy you are dealing with. This logic means that you think of your wife in some sense, as "my property". That perhaps is where you need to start. It is much easier for a woman to get laid than a man. She is what ensures that you get some action at the clubs. Without her you feel powerless perhaps.
 
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