Living poly in a straight world?

nycindie said:
Ugh, only a month and that is how he is? Needy, clingy, wants to be in control, yuck. Maybe eventually you will stop being attracted to such controlling men. That is a pattern you can leave behind in your new independent life. :)


Yeah, I would DTMFA if I were you. It's so new, long-distance, and seems more of a headache than you need right now.
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Hi

Yes I am aware that I am attracted to controlling men. My first husband not controlling at all. So not controlling he never cared what I did or who I saw or pretty much anything.

After that I changed and now,
I'm attracted to strong minded men and yes sadly controlling I guess. I hadn't thought about it until now. Needy no. Needy makes me want to run.

But I'm no peach my self. I'm pretty controlling myself. I'm very strong minded. I expect a lot out of my self and in turn and this is something I'm not proud of I can expect a lot out of others.
 
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