Looking for a unicorn.

In all fairness to the OP, a lot of people use "unicorn" to mean a woman who will have sex with an established couple and beyond that, nothing more is expected or implied. I've heard "unicorn" used quite a lot as a compliment and have heard it (liberally) used mostly in reference to any uncoupled woman who socializes sexually with couples. I think most people who wander in here looking for their "third" are not attaching many expectations to their fantasy woman beyond sex. OK, some want the "equal parts love" thing, which is silly, but all of that other stuff......no. I'm sure those sex slave people exist, but your average swinger is just looking for a HBB and calling her a unicorn. "Unicorn" doesn't really have a true definition - it's a made up term and it means what it means in context. To many people, a "unicorn" is just an unattached woman who will have sex with a couple or in a group.
 
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I'm a member of Adult Friend Finder; joined in 2007 as a single woman, ended up meeting Hubby through there in 2008 and S2 through there last year. (Also met my ex-boyfriend Guy through there.) This despite the whole "it's a sex site, you aren't going to find a committed relationship here..."

Aside from that, when I was single I had couples who tried to "unicorn" me. I'm not even slightly bi, so that didn't go so well for them. But "unicorn" was the term used for a woman who would fuck both members of a couple, whether in the context of a FWB arrangement or a NSA thing or whatever.

One couple took me to a few swinger parties with them; they wanted me to play with the husband while the wife went off and did other, er, things. What others have said about the parties is what I experienced: Single women were free to get in, couples paid a specific rate, and single men paid a rate higher than what couples had to pay. Which is why a single man will often find a single woman to pretend to be a couple with him; he can then go to the party for as much as half off the cost of going alone, and can fuck whomever he wants.

But yeah, depending on where you're located, I would recommend AFF if you're looking for a sexual unicorn. You might meet a woman there, or you might make connections that will lead you to parties where you can meet a unicorn.

Either way, good luck.
 
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