Married and coming out Poly

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Byrd471

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Does anyone have a story like this to share? How did you bring it up? What reaction did you get?

I'm thinking its time to confront this gorilla in my life with my partner but I'd be lying if I said I'm not nervous about it. I hope some stories may strengthen my resolve.
 
Thank you for the link! After looking through that and other threads all day yesterday we sat down last night and had our talk. It went much better than I could have hoped for!
 
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I, myself, am married and Poly. I have not come all the way OUT yet, and not sure when I will. The people who I thought should know, know :) Do whatever feels natural to you and ease yourself into it. My mom and two long time best friends know, and my husband of course. Past that, my girlfriend knows and some of her friends. I don't deny being with her if anyone asks but I'm not all about putting my personal life for everyone, especially with people who don't CARE, you know?
 
Thanks for the reply. I don't have any intentions of anyone knowing outside of the people that need to know and neither does she. Would I deny it? Probably not. But I'm not going to get it inked onto my forehead.

Thanks again :)
 
My experience is that the more at ease and self assured you are about it, the more at ease you put your spouse and the smoother the conversations.
 
Yes, the search function is your friend. It helps to read the forum thoroughly (and, for that matter, the Guidelines) before creating a new thread on an old topic. Especially check out the Golden Nuggets forum. Also, if you find an old thread that resonates with you, there is no rule against reviving it with a new post.

Welcome!
 
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