Married Couple Seeking Unattached Female.

[phillystrange]

I hope the title does not offend anyone. This is our first step and we are not sure how to approach this.
My wife and I are from the Philadelphia area. We are interested in finding a girlfriend. We have no idea where to start. We don't want to go to any swingers club. Craigslist is just one big spam depository. Discretion is important to us and we don't want to get involved with any men or married women. We have seen some sites, but they are seem like BS. My wife and I are in fairly good shape. I am not a GQ model but not ugly in any sense. My wife is hot. Lucky me. We have posted this request on other sites, just to get met with a bunch of crude responses from guys telling how much they are interested. Any help would be much appreciated. Legit websites would be a great tool. Thanks in advance.

 

[kdt26417]

Hi phillystrange,
Welcome to our forum.

Some possible links you can try:

http://www.okcupid.com/
http://www.polymatchmaker.com/
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=11

Have you considered attending poly events in your area? Try googling "Philadelphia polyamory;" see what turns up.

Fair warning: You're almost certain to receive the dreaded "unicorn hunter" label. If you do, just try to take it with a grain of salt as some people have found that the exact type of woman you're looking for can be hard to find.

To help prepare you for that, my I suggest the following article? http://davidlnoble.com/so-somebody-called-you-a-unicorn-hunter/

I wish you well in your search and hope that this site will help.

Sincerely,
Kevin T.