Brighty18
New member
Hi, everybody!
This may sound like a bizarre question, but we need some help in choosing a new mattress that fits our polyamorous lifestyle. Our old mattress is aging rabidly and none of us are too comfortable at night, so we need something new. But what? Are there mattress that are better for polyamory?
There are three of us (two men and myself) and none of us are exactly tiny. It's not like we're morbidly obese, but we're not small, either. A. is about 220 (mostly muscle), C. is about 180 (tall and lanky), and I am a bit overweight at 150. We all share a bed every night which means over 500 pounds of pressure on one poor, unsuspecting mattress. A. sleeps in the middle and gets quite warm at night. (He blames C. and I for giving off too much heat. LOL) And we roll a lot. Altogether. Like hot dogs on one of those convenience store roller heaters. Part of the reason we roll is because we all like to cuddle and spoon and find ourselves switching positions to gain access to one another. Also, my arms tend to fall asleep so I have to switch it around, causing a chain spooning reaction.
We generally have sex in couples, but sometimes it is all three of us, and it is usually... erm... vigorous. Because of this, we do not use a bed frame, though we are considering building a platform bed.
So, what we are looking for is something:
A) that can take a lot of weight
B) that has an even surface and possibly distribute the weight well.
C) that will not retain too much heat
D) that is good for sex (can take a pounding)
E) is medium firm
Does anyone else share a bed with multiple people on a regular basis? Do you have any mattress recommendations?
Thanks!
This may sound like a bizarre question, but we need some help in choosing a new mattress that fits our polyamorous lifestyle. Our old mattress is aging rabidly and none of us are too comfortable at night, so we need something new. But what? Are there mattress that are better for polyamory?
There are three of us (two men and myself) and none of us are exactly tiny. It's not like we're morbidly obese, but we're not small, either. A. is about 220 (mostly muscle), C. is about 180 (tall and lanky), and I am a bit overweight at 150. We all share a bed every night which means over 500 pounds of pressure on one poor, unsuspecting mattress. A. sleeps in the middle and gets quite warm at night. (He blames C. and I for giving off too much heat. LOL) And we roll a lot. Altogether. Like hot dogs on one of those convenience store roller heaters. Part of the reason we roll is because we all like to cuddle and spoon and find ourselves switching positions to gain access to one another. Also, my arms tend to fall asleep so I have to switch it around, causing a chain spooning reaction.
We generally have sex in couples, but sometimes it is all three of us, and it is usually... erm... vigorous. Because of this, we do not use a bed frame, though we are considering building a platform bed.
So, what we are looking for is something:
A) that can take a lot of weight
B) that has an even surface and possibly distribute the weight well.
C) that will not retain too much heat
D) that is good for sex (can take a pounding)
E) is medium firm
Does anyone else share a bed with multiple people on a regular basis? Do you have any mattress recommendations?
Thanks!
