Mono metamour... struggling

Wow, that you all for the amazing replies- what a supportive group! I haven't had a chance to read them all I just say a trend and I just want to clarify... we won't be putting off the trip since tickets were expensive HOWEVER- We have already met in person and we will not cheat or break rules and limits. We know us and it will not happen. We have already proven ourselves....TRUST ME. This is not a concern. We are strong willed people with too much respect for the limits as they stand. I will reply again once I read them all!
 
WhatHappened said:
Sure--and you're doing it with an attitude of moral superiority and the understanding that you fully intend to have sex with her husband eventually...no matter how hard it is on her.

And this is my other problem. You claim to be very spiritual and to understand this is hard for her. And yet you keep right on keeping on, doing a thing that you know is painful to someone else.


And you do it while patronizing her and acting as if you are the more enlightened people.
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I think this comment hurt me more than you know....we never told her or made any indication that we are expecting sex...we've talked in depth that we may never have sex in our relationship and how that looks. It's possible we may not so we don't lament on the sex thing. It's the kissing and cuddling thing we struggle with. Yes, I see your point. But I feel as though it must be hard to fully understand over the internet what the true nature of the situation is. I think I was desperate for someone to talk to and I see now how almost impossible it is to narriate the situation.

Thank you everyone for your input, reality checks and kind words. :)
 
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