Greetings everyone. I'm Emmy, married to my soulmate for over 13 years. He has a girlfriend I absolutely adore and that our children are crazy about. She's been a friend for many years before she was my husband's gf. We're still fairly new and trying to find our way in the poly world. My husband is also my owner (as in BDSM relationship) which adds an interesting dynamic to the relationship. His gf has her own home plus a bedroom here within our home. He recently asked if both of us ladies were comfortable all sharing the same bed so he could have both of us close to him. We both have agreed but haven't done it yet. We are out to some members of my family, none of his family. His family isn't as accepting as mine so we haven't gotten the courage worked up yet to tell them.