Thanks, Nadya.
Yeah... some people will turn just about anything into "right vs. wrong".
I understand Hubby's thinking; he doesn't want to take the flak for "letting" his wife have another man. (Which is his own insecurity talking, but I decided not to point that out since he claims he's fine with my relationship with Guy.) My thing is that Guy has become almost equally important in my life as Hubby, and I feel like he's earned being identified as someone that important. Hubby agrees with that on an intellectual level, just not on an emotional one.
Yeah... some people will turn just about anything into "right vs. wrong".
I understand Hubby's thinking; he doesn't want to take the flak for "letting" his wife have another man. (Which is his own insecurity talking, but I decided not to point that out since he claims he's fine with my relationship with Guy.) My thing is that Guy has become almost equally important in my life as Hubby, and I feel like he's earned being identified as someone that important. Hubby agrees with that on an intellectual level, just not on an emotional one.