New Here~ Hi!

[SammyKijak]

i'm new
23/f/nj
my fiancé is 18/m
his girlfriend is 16/f, i do not engage with her due to age (and she is straight)

i needed to find people of similar minds
people are confused all the time in my area
they don't understand that i have no problem sitting around on my phone or watching tv while they make out on the bed next to me
they don't understand that i TELL HIM to spend time with her on specific days
they don't understand that i can watch him flirt and find it CUTE

so i googled for polyamory forums
and here we are 8)



here are pics of me and my fiancé btw

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings SammyKijak,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Love the pictures; glad you could reach out to us and be a part of us. It is often hard to find the kind of support you need among non-poly people. Even those who are willing to accept that part of you, often just don't get it, or don't understand it, or don't know how to help. You're much more likely to get knowing nods and appropriate wisdom from the members here on this site.

Have a look around as there is lots and lots to learn here. Let us know of whatever thoughts, questions, and/or concerns you desire to share. You'll hear from many different viewpoints, so you'll want to filter that and come away with the thoughts and advice that work best for you.

Pleased to meet you and hope you enjoy your stay.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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