Hi my name is Jessica. Im new to this type of relationship and would like to connect with people who also share in my life style. I very new to this I have been with my husband Justin going on 5 years. 8 months ago i entered into a relationship wwith my Jonas who we have known for 5 years. We live together almost since day one. We raise my daughter together as a family. Our families haave been very supportive in my family. We also help raise my boyfriends son. Both my husband and boyfriend are 100 percent commited to me. They have became best friends since we entered into this and call each other brothers.
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I have faced some comments from friends about my relationship. Mostly trying to explain to many that our family is very normal. We do at time fight but every family does. My boyfriend is talking about that he wants to ask meet o marry him. Which i would love to do. Ive never even thought about shaving his type of relationship. But i would never want to be with out either of my guys. Ive never even hought about another guy since i let my husband. None of use even thought about having this type of relationship. We mostly get a wow reaction when we do tell people. We only have a problem when people dont frowzy he fact that i am with 2 guys. Most of the time people we tell only focuse on the sex in my relationship and ask all kinds of question only pretaining to that. Not he fact the there more to it then just me having to guys in my bed room. My relationship is so much mpre than that . sometimes it hurts that other people in my life such as some friends dont get it. They always ask why do you need to guys. I cant explain to them how much love i feel and how safe and protected i feel.
Any suggiestions on how do deal better to some negative reactions we get?
I have faced some comments from friends about my relationship. Mostly trying to explain to many that our family is very normal. We do at time fight but every family does. My boyfriend is talking about that he wants to ask meet o marry him. Which i would love to do. Ive never even thought about shaving his type of relationship. But i would never want to be with out either of my guys. Ive never even hought about another guy since i let my husband. None of use even thought about having this type of relationship. We mostly get a wow reaction when we do tell people. We only have a problem when people dont frowzy he fact that i am with 2 guys. Most of the time people we tell only focuse on the sex in my relationship and ask all kinds of question only pretaining to that. Not he fact the there more to it then just me having to guys in my bed room. My relationship is so much mpre than that . sometimes it hurts that other people in my life such as some friends dont get it. They always ask why do you need to guys. I cant explain to them how much love i feel and how safe and protected i feel.
Any suggiestions on how do deal better to some negative reactions we get?
Welcome!
Check out Bluebird's Blog here http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=54032 She has two husbands and has dealt with all kinds of reactions over the years.
Leetah
Check out Bluebird's Blog here http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=54032 She has two husbands and has dealt with all kinds of reactions over the years.
Leetah
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Haha! Yes, check out my blog. It's long but I have dealt with so much drama over the years, you're bound to find something useful. Things are great right now - I have one legal husband and one unauthorized illegal one. lol I went to court to change my name to reflect both of their last names, and we have life insurance, wills and retirement all set up so both my guys are protected, even though only one has the marriage certificate. We just bought a house together and we cohabitate.
I am completely open and out about my polyamory and polygamy. I answer lots of questions, and yes, at first people center on the sexual side of things but generally that interest does down and then they want to know about the legal aspects and then they want to know about finances and then they finally ask about romance and relationship stuff. I consider that just normal curiousity and I don't let it bother me, as long as people are respectful.
I am completely open and out about my polyamory and polygamy. I answer lots of questions, and yes, at first people center on the sexual side of things but generally that interest does down and then they want to know about the legal aspects and then they want to know about finances and then they finally ask about romance and relationship stuff. I consider that just normal curiousity and I don't let it bother me, as long as people are respectful.