Re-Introduction

[RedMacha]

Hi, I'm Phoenix. I used to come here about a year and half ago, and I figured I'd poke around again. I'm 28, from NC, bi, and I've been with my current boyfriend for over a year. We're both poly, but don't have a lot of experience. Our current struggle is finding and meeting people, as we're both busy with work just about all the time.

I look forward to posting more often and bouncing around ideas. Thanks!

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Phoenix,
Welcome again! Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

There are various links you can use to look for poly people and poly groups to hang out with. For example try:

• https://fetlife.com/
• http://www.okcupid.com/
• http://www.facebook.com/
• http://www.beyondtwo.com/
• http://www.polygroups.com/
• http://polyamory.meetup.com/
• http://adultfriendfinder.com/
• http://www.polymatchmaker.com/
• http://www.polyamory.org/SF/groups.html
• http://polyevents.blogspot.com/#localgroups
• http://openingup.net/resources/local-orginizations-u-s/
• http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?p=83656#post83656
• http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=13

You could also google "North Carolina polyamory" or "polyamory" with the name of your nearest major city; local groups may appear.

Not that you can do a lot about having a busy schedule!

I hope Polyamory.com can be of some help.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

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Welcome aboard!

 

[RedMacha]

Thanks Kdt! That's a lot of info in the right direction! My bf hosts a bi-monthly poly discussion group (that hasn't been as engaging or as helpful as we originally sought, so we're rebooting it slowly but surely), and we have been making the trek out to Raleigh and Durham for some of their Meetups. We've thought about creating a joint OKC profile, but I'm not too hopeful on OKC. The last person I really chatted with on there was over a year ago... and it was my current bf!

 

[Seitu]

Hi lady! I'm relatively new here but also 28 yr old bi female. I'm in Canada though! I'm always up to meeting new people and chatting about different topics!

 

[kdt26417]

Re (from RedMacha):

"We've thought about creating a joint OKC profile, but I'm not too hopeful on OKC."

Yeah, I personally didn't have much success on OKC, but I know a lot of other folks have. [shrug]