Relationship styles and their roots

[Deleted member 157725]

Does anyone know any good books about how relationship / attachment styles develop in people, I guess about how people develop their 'relationshipping' habits where those come from and how to repair them? Probably psychology is what I'm thinking. I need to do some reading. Thank you

 

[Shaya]

I'm probably just spamming here, but would like to add that I'm also looking for this. In particular, I'm interested in how past childhood traumas or your parent's parenting styles can influence the way you love or do relationships as an adult.

So far I've just used internet resources, none of which are amazing enough to recommend.

 

[Sentinel]

The psychologists call it 'Attachment Theory'. Google it, my advice.

 

[Ravenscroft]

attachment theory

not to be confused with

attachment in adults

As for "repair," that's another set of complications entirely.