robee
New member
Hi, My name is Rob and I live in Denver, Colorado.
I am non-binary and on the asexual spectrum. I am married to a woman I love who is not poly. She is not an emotional person and does not like a lot of affection. I, on the other hand, need to have emotional connections with people in order to survive this world and I need some touch and affection so I don’t feel so alone.
I love my wife dearly but for my own mental health, I am looking for a relationship that is something less than a sexual or romantic relationship but perhaps a little more than just a friendship.
I love meaningful conversations, light cuddling, hugs, and hanging out doing fun things like watching movies, playing games, going to art walks and shows, or just getting coffee and talking about life.
I am an emotional person and I get along best with women because of this. The kind of relationship I am looking for would be like an affectionate sibling relationship. Something that would not threaten my wife but would still be emotionally fulfilling for me and my friend.
I follow a lot of poly folks on TikTok and Instagram and I have heard some women say that they have no problem finding men who want sex but struggle to find men who they can have an emotional connection with. Since sex is not a big motivator for me and I am sufficiently satisfied in that area in my marriage, it occurred to me that perhaps I could find the kind of meaningful friendships I need in the poly community without actually being poly myself. To clarify, I would be poly if my wife was open to it but out of my respect and love for her, I will put boundaries on any relationship I get into with a poly person.
I don’t know if this is something anyone would actually be interested in. I am kind and funny but I can also be odd and I’m no super model. I need friends though so I thought I may as well shoot my shot and see what happens!
I am non-binary and on the asexual spectrum. I am married to a woman I love who is not poly. She is not an emotional person and does not like a lot of affection. I, on the other hand, need to have emotional connections with people in order to survive this world and I need some touch and affection so I don’t feel so alone.
I love my wife dearly but for my own mental health, I am looking for a relationship that is something less than a sexual or romantic relationship but perhaps a little more than just a friendship.
I love meaningful conversations, light cuddling, hugs, and hanging out doing fun things like watching movies, playing games, going to art walks and shows, or just getting coffee and talking about life.
I am an emotional person and I get along best with women because of this. The kind of relationship I am looking for would be like an affectionate sibling relationship. Something that would not threaten my wife but would still be emotionally fulfilling for me and my friend.
I follow a lot of poly folks on TikTok and Instagram and I have heard some women say that they have no problem finding men who want sex but struggle to find men who they can have an emotional connection with. Since sex is not a big motivator for me and I am sufficiently satisfied in that area in my marriage, it occurred to me that perhaps I could find the kind of meaningful friendships I need in the poly community without actually being poly myself. To clarify, I would be poly if my wife was open to it but out of my respect and love for her, I will put boundaries on any relationship I get into with a poly person.
I don’t know if this is something anyone would actually be interested in. I am kind and funny but I can also be odd and I’m no super model. I need friends though so I thought I may as well shoot my shot and see what happens!