azorkanesbrat
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Azorkane and I had a discussion the other day about BDSM activities... vs sex.
In his mind - they are on the same playing field.
In mine - they aren't. There are certain things I'll allow just about anyone do to my body (flogging, scratching)
But stuff that's more "sacred" - I don't offer up to anyone - entering my body with parts of theirs, the sexual side of things - those things I reserve for a special few.
I don't see someone flogging me as sexual. I don't see someone tying me up as sexual.
But... there was one scene... yeah - it was sexual even though we didn't have sex, he never undressed, and my genitals were completely covered.
So I'm sorta on the fence... is bdsm on the same level as sex to you?
In his mind - they are on the same playing field.
In mine - they aren't. There are certain things I'll allow just about anyone do to my body (flogging, scratching)
But stuff that's more "sacred" - I don't offer up to anyone - entering my body with parts of theirs, the sexual side of things - those things I reserve for a special few.
I don't see someone flogging me as sexual. I don't see someone tying me up as sexual.
But... there was one scene... yeah - it was sexual even though we didn't have sex, he never undressed, and my genitals were completely covered.
So I'm sorta on the fence... is bdsm on the same level as sex to you?